Crossing Thresholds 

When you feel the pull of a new chapter in your life—perhaps unclear, yet pulsing with aliveness and meaning—you may be standing at a transformational threshold. 

I guide individuals and couples crossing these empowering life passages via my signature Crossing the Threshold Immersion Sessions,

1-on-1 & couples therapy, and 6-month Leadership Mentoring Program. 

 

Thresholds of great possibility arrive in everyone's life...

At certain moments in life, we feel an unmistakable pull toward greater aliveness, clarity, and meaning—yet the path forward may be hidden. We sense a new chapter calling, but the way to access it may feel elusive. Often, these moments are accompanied by pain: a deep longing, a gradual collapse of an old way of being, or an increasing knowing that your life as it currently exists is no longer challenging you to rise to your highest. 

You’ve likely already proven you can achieve success through your intelligence, drive, and relentless effort. But beneath it all, you know there’s still more waiting for you—more fulfillment, wealth, intimacy, influence, visibility.

You may feel as if you’ve hit a plateau, both within yourself and in your external world. You might even sense that your unique gifts are ready to emerge and contribute to others in a more authentic and unbridled way, but the ‘what' and 'how’ feels elusive. If this resonates with you, you may be standing at a powerful crossroads, ready to step into a new phase of your life's expression.

Gavin Frye, Spiritual Therapist & Leadership Mentor

These are not ordinary transitions...

They are thresholds—sacred turning points in our life where the old can no longer continue, the new has not yet emerged—and we are ripe for transformation. Crossing these thresholds can feel both unsettling and full of possibility.

  • What if this moment—precisely as it is—is an invitation and entryway into greater depth, healing, and freedom? 
  • What if everything you’ve experienced until now has been preparing you to step into the new season that is undeniably beckoning you? 
  • What if this is a pivotal turning point in your life path?

The phrase “threshold” comes from ancient mythology and storytelling traditions, and represents the boundary between the known and the unknown. When someone “crosses the threshold,” they’re taking bold steps into a new adventure, into unfamiliar territory.

For over 45 years, as a facilitator of transformation I’ve had the privilege of guiding individuals, couples and leaders as they navigate these initiatory life passages. My work carries a rare field—rooted, deeply attuned and wise—with a spiritual gift for facilitating life-altering openings. While each client and each threshold is unique, I carry a seasoned, intuitive understanding of how to support those who are poised to make a leap forward in spiritual growth, psychological maturity and manifesting abundant success in their outer life.

Most new clients begin their work with me by scheduling a 1-on-1 Crossing the Threshold Immersion Session, a deeply attuned 3-hour collaborative experience designed to catalyze you into profound levels of revelation and clarity about you and your life direction. At the completion of this initial session, we can explore the possibility of engaging in further transformational work together via my other programs.

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This work as a sacred passage...

My work is for self-aware individuals, conscious entrepreneurs, creatives and leaders who know they’re meant for more. During this time of unprecedented challenge and accelerated change on the planet, each of us is being invited to honor our inner calling to step into a larger circle of healing, awakening and contribution. 

Whether it be through my signature immersion sessions, individual or couples therapy, or 6-month Leadership Mentoring Program, the essence of everything I offer supports skillfully guiding others as they courageously cross into the newly emerging landscape of their life. 

While each Crossing the Threshold Immersion Session is unique, I've consistently found that successfully crossing the threshold into the next season of your life journey involves opening to a more honorable, devoted relationship with yourself. 

Working as collaborative partners, together we create a 3-hour compassionate space of immense freedom where you can identify and let go of unconscious patterns from the past that no longer serve you—and open to the newly emerging energies and visions that are calling you forward at this time. 

What Expansive Life Threshold is Emerging in Your Life?

Individuals, couples and conscious entrepreneurs choose into my 3-hour Crossing the Threshold Immersion Session and my other programs at pivotal moments in their lives—times when something deep within them is opening to major change that requires wholehearted courage, seasoned mentoring and accountable support over time.

Some examples of the kinds of thresholds clients bring into our work together:

  • Successful entrepreneurs who aren't fulfilled as the business they've created is not aligned with their heart & deeper gifts
  • Executives feeling trapped in a pattern of working too hard and too many hours trying to prove themselves to others
  • Recently had a life-changing psychological or spiritual experience & need assistance integrating profound levels of change
  • Lack of confidence and never feeling good enough, with an inner critic who won’t quiet down
  • Rebuilding one's life as they traverse a major trauma or loss (i.e. divorce, death of a loved one, natural disaster, health crisis, etc.)
  • Pattern of neglecting their basic needs and physical well-being, with an increase in unhealthy body symptoms
  • Perpetually putting off new directions and dream projects for “someday”—stuck in a pattern of self-doubt & procrastination
  • Couples seeking to overcome painful challenges & patterns in their relationship and and desire seasoned support for their intimacy to flourish 
  • Growing awareness of a profound desire to have a more powerful impact on others' lives
  • Powerful resolve to honestly address and put behind them their destructive pattern of addiction
  • Holding regret and resentment from past mistakes—and not knowing how to forgive, learn and move forward
  • Fears of becoming more visible on stages, social media, etc.—with a strangely accompanying yearning to take risks to be more visible   
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Clients are Saying...

“I can easily see that my life, my fulfillment, my ability to be on-purpose, to show up and evolve the way that I have over the last number of years—wouldn’t have ever happened if it weren’t for Gavin.”

~ Scott Oldford
Mentor & Investor

 

Following our initial Crossing the Threshold Immersion Session,  options for continuing our work together over time include...

1-on-1 Therapy provides a steady container of transformational healing while, at the same time, an experience of connecting with deeper levels of your true nature. Often, this process includes assisting my clients to build a compassionate bridge between the depth of their love and the parts of themselves they've unconsciously been neglecting. Mature evolution isn’t about fixing or changing yourself, but about learning to embrace all aspects of your experience as you awaken to the profound depth and wisdom already present within you.

Couples Therapy has been an abiding passion of mine for over 40 years. It is a profound privilege to support committed couples in resolving conflicts, release limiting  patterns, and open to levels of nourishing intimacy they've never known. I work with couples with a sincere intention to embrace committed relationship as a profound pathway for each partner's healing and transformation.

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Leadership Mentoring Program, a pioneering 6-month partnership which builds upon my decades of therapeutic and leadership work and is designed exclusively for self-aware soulpreneurs and corporate executives. It provides dynamic, personalized 1-on-1 support as you successfully identify and manifest an inspired dream project in your professional life—while simultaneously engaging in a catalytic process of psychological and spiritual transformation. Some of the business-related projects that powerfully emerge naturally from this potent, leveraged partnership include: 

  • stepping into new levels of courageous, inspired leadership & contribution
  • revisioning the values, direction & structure of your business in a way that reflects your authentic gifts & unique Soul's curriculum
  • daring to embrace a dynamic new career direction
  • writing and publishing a long-desired book or successfully birthing a new product or program

This mentoring program is about changing lives in radical new ways...and never going back. It's for spiritually-oriented individuals and  entrepreneurs who recognize that receiving in-depth support over time with a seasoned guide provides the leverage required to heal unconscious patterns that have previously blocked their development—while simultaneously opening to unprecedented levels of outer success. Making fundamental shifts in your inner and outer landscape go hand-in-hand. Learning the art and craft of trusting your inner wisdom unlocks unbridled authenticity.  If you carry an insatiable desire to deepen your connection with higher spiritual energies as you step into greater leadership in service to others, I invite you to reach out my way to schedule a time for us to connect.  It would be a pleasure to discover more about what's unfolding in your life.

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Gavin Frye, Spiritual Therapist & Leadership Mentor

About Gavin

After four decades of wide-ranging professional experience, along with navigating my own challenging and blessed life journey, I’ve come to some core understandings about who we are as human beings and the process of facilitating personal transformation. Here’s what I’ve discovered:

  • Each of us has a unique and natural Self—a nourishing, eternal presence—that longs to be known, breathed into, and lived from.
  • Difficult and painful transitions in life are one of the ways our Authentic Self has of gaining our attention and inviting us into powerful seasons of change and new direction.
  • We each carry a unique constellation of gifts, dreams and leadership potential we’re designed to manifest in this lifetime.
  • Self-compassion is intimately related to sourcing our creativity. We can embrace vulnerability not as a weakness, but as a powerful ally in accessing our divine power.
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Only you can choose to open wide to receive the leverage of seasoned support...

Whether through a Crossing the Threshold Immersion Session, 1-on-1 or couples therapy, or leadership mentoring—my practice is centered upon core clients I work with consistently over time, most often on a weekly basis. I work with individuals, couples and entrepreneurs from around the world, and they find my transformational work intimate and effective whether conducted in person, over the phone, or via video-based conferencing. The key variable for success is the strength of our bond and the mutual sincerity of our brave engagement in the process.

If we engage in a collaborative partnership together, you’ll find the space and steady support to:

  • Successfully cross your threshold of transformation into your new life
  • Awaken to new levels of your love, wisdom and creativity
  • Identify and embrace your unique Soul's curriculum in this lifetime
  • Compassionately release unconscious patterns that no longer serve you
  • Become more grounded in your unique Soul's presence and gifts 
  • Step into a new paradigm of leading your life from clarity and authenticity
  • Open to groundbreaking new levels of impact, leadership and contribution 

If you’re ready to wholeheartedly embrace the next season of your life's expression with love and bravery, I invite you to schedule a time for us to connect so I can learn about you and how you might be served by this life-changing work. 

All my best your way, 

Gavin

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"I am so appreciative of your style as a therapist...

...so gentle, yet strong, and so incredibly intuitive. I have received so many blessings over the last few years from our work together. The sacred space you have held for my process of growth and learning has allowed me to see in myself what you see in me: my beauty, strength, vulnerability, gentleness, and even my child-like innocence through which I’ve learned to see the world.” 

                             ~ Tammi Scott, Relationship Coach

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Introducing the Joy of my life...

As beloved spiritual partners, Joy Taylor and I offer a range of transformational programs and events designed to inspire and support those with a sincere desire to create a  mature, loving and committed long-term relationship.

Are you yearning to open to your next level of heart-centered intimacy with a partner?

In the journey of exploring the rewards of authentic partnership, it’s not uncommon to find ourselves yearning for something more—a deeper connection, a truer expression of partnership, or a new beginning with our current relationship that feels aligned with our heart’s vision. Whether you’re navigating the world of dating or looking to enrich your existing relationship, we invite you to learn more about our programs that will support you opening to a more evolved, authentic experience of loving partnership.

In all of our work with singles and couples, we guide participants to open their hearts to the possibility of real love that is more awake, intentional and compassionate—where both partners feel profoundly seen, understood, and celebrated for who they truly are.

Gavin Frye & Joy Taylor

Each summer, we offer our in-person SAYING YES TO LOVE Conscious Singles Retreat, a transformative weekend retreat designed for singles with a sincere desire to welcome the partner of their dreams into their lives. We assist singles to open their own hearts to new depths of awareness, intention, and vulnerability. This rich, experiential weekend offers a safe space to uncover the patterns and blocks that may be holding one back from successfully attracting a more vibrant, heartfelt and truly aligned partner. Our next retreat will be held in September, 2026 at Mountain View Sanctuary—our beloved home in Mt. Shasta, California.

We’re also excited to announce we'll be continuing to offer our monthly online Soul-Inspired Relationships Workshop Series through 2026. Designed for both singles and couples, within each 2-hour experiential gathering we’ll be exploring new frontiers of intimacy centered around a distinctive theme. Some themes include: Loving Partnership as a Spiritual Practice; Core Ingredients of a Mature, Loving Long-Term Relationship; Courageous Conversations, etc.

If you’re called to open yourself to a conscious journey of healing, awakening and fulfillment that are available through the avenue of intimate relationship, Joy and I warmly invite you to check out and attend one of our offerings.

Learn about Our Annual SAYING YES TO LOVE Conscious Singles Retreat
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Experience Soul Gatherings

A complimentary online monthly community gathering guided by Gavin which offers a two-hour space for soulful discovery and deep group connection. It’s a once-a-month experience of sanctuary which invites you to nurture your inner wisdom, explore transformational themes, and build authentic relationships with kindred spirits from around the world.

In these times of fast-paced chaos and instability on the planet, these sacred gatherings offer a rejuvenating pause—a space to reflect, grow, and orient yourself toward your Soul and its natural intelligence and flow. Whether you’re seasoned in spiritual self-exploration or taking your first steps on a path of expanding your awareness, these are fertile community sessions for learning how to shift your allegiance from your mind to the eternal, guiding presence of your deeper being.  

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This groundbreaking exploration of the Authentic Self flows from my 40 years experience as a licensed spiritual therapist and leadership mentor to entrepreneurs. The Real You is a comprehensive work that illuminates and makes accessible the universal path of the Authentic Self.

Each and every person living on the planet has a unique and natural Authentic Self—an eternal presence—that longs to be known, breathed into and lived from. This core of our nature is characterized by love, wisdom and compassion. The Real You is about reconnecting with this dynamic inner presence and following its lead to heal & transform every aspect of your life.

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